In August of 2010 our beautiful baby boy Ronan was diagnosed with Stage 4 Neuroblastoma cancer. He passed away on May 9th 2011 in his mothers arms after an 8 month battle where he never gave up until he was told it was time to let go. This is his adventure. This is his life. This is his story. It will never end.
Jamaica Hadaller
/ August 14, 2010Maya and woody~ I am so tremendously saddened for you. As a mom I can’t believe what you are having to go through with such a little one. Please know that our prayers are with you and that God is truly good! He will totally bring you through this if you allow him to.
We will continue to think of you and pray for your family!
Jamaica and Shawn Hadaller
Jamie Harms
/ August 18, 2010Maya and Woody,
I continue to pray for you all during this most trying time. I wish I could say something wise or thoughtful, something that you can remember while going through this with Ronan. Nobody should ever have to go through this. Young or old. I continue to go to God whenever I think of Ronan. and that’s a lot of the time. I’m a stay at home mom and have a lot of time with my thoughts. What a beautiful boy you have. He will get through this. You will get through this. You have so many people on your side that cancer doesn’t even have a chance in Ronan. Stay strong and may God be with you all.
Jamie
Pam McMahon
/ September 4, 2010I have been keeping track of your family and wish you all the best. Our son, Thomas, had neuroblastoma at the age of 2 1/2 years. He is now 42 years of age. His primary tumor was on the adrenal gland. He was treated surgically at Mayo Clinic (Rochester) and received radiation treatments at Bergan Mercy Hospital in Omaha, NE. This all happened in 1971 My husband and I had never heard of this childhood cancer and were overwhelmed to have our first-born so seriously ill with this horrible disease. Please know that your family our in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Lou
/ September 15, 2011Pam,
I am the grandmother of a young 2 1/2 yr old boy who was diagnosed with a neuroblastoma this July 7th 2011. He too had a primary tumor on the adrenal gland that was removed within 24 hrs. Today was a particularly hard day. Watching my sweet grandson so weak and throwing up all day after round 3 of chemo, is just not fair. To read your words tonite, seemed like a gentle sign from above , telling me to have hope,don’t dispair. It was so comforting to know that your beautiful , first born son ,is now a mature man that can hold and love the “mommy and daddy ” that helped him through the hardest time in his tiny life. Thankyou for your “hopefilled” words .
Daren Lasky
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and I would be honored to have you and your son use it to go to New York it is
not a charter it is my companies Jet and its ready to go I have put my pilot on standby so if you need he is ready anytime..
Warmest Regards
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480-273-8891 HM
925-325-1016 Cell
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Jennifer Lorimer
/ November 30, 2010Daren,
It is people like you that give me faith in other’s kindness….In this world today it seems that all that gets focused on is the negative things, so it is refreshing and enlightening to see people who still know kindness and generosity!! Kudos to you and your pilot who must surely be just as kind to agree to be on standby!!!
Maya and Woody,
While I don’t know you, my heart goes out to you. I am praying for you, Ronan, and your family! Cancer has touched my life and I know the fear of facing it, however I cannot fathom what you must be going through!!! God Bless and we will continue to pray!
Kawri
/ August 14, 2010Maya I am praying for you and your family and hope everything turns out.
Brenda Oxford
/ August 14, 2010Maya – just thinking of you and your family. My prayers are with you! Please let me know if there is anything I can do!
Rachel Cox
/ August 14, 2010You are in my thoughts and prayers little man as are your family… I love you and am praying for you..
Pamela Nett
/ August 14, 2010Hi Ronan, I went to high school with Rachel Cox! I don’t know you personally, but I sure am pulling for you big guy!!!! I will send positive thoughts into the Universe for your over coming this cancer and also for your family. I am excited to hear about your progress and please know we are all behind you and your family! God Speed little buddy . . . you will return to ‘happy Ronan’ very soon. Love, support and hugs, Pam Nett
Laurie
/ August 14, 2010Hi Maya,
A long time friend of mine, Lisa, told me about your website and I wanted to get in contact with you. Our son, Jack, was diagnosed with stage 4 neuroblastoma on March 8, 2010. He has just completed round 6 of chemo and is doing wonderful. We are getting ready to check in to Phoenix Childrens in 2 weeks for his stem cell transplant. I would love to talk with you and share whatever information that I might know to help you along this journey. We will be saying prayers for Ronan and woulld love to meet you all soon.
Laurie
hattie p
/ August 14, 2010Dear Thompson Family,
I am Sara Cooley’s sister, who is a friend of Matt Marriott. We do not know each other either, but I just wanted you to know as well that my husband Joshua and I, along with our two-and-a-half year old little girl Lydia, are praying for you. We are asking the Lord Jesus, Who loves your son and your family so very dearly, to give Ronan and you His Peace and Strength in this battle, and to heal Ronan’s precious little body that He created and knows so well.
May God surely Bless you,
( : Hattie
Amanda Kop
/ August 15, 2010I went to highschool with Woody and while our contact has been limited to Facebook, the prayers being sent by our family are strong and love-filled. He will make it through this…I have faith in that statement.
Patti
/ August 15, 2010I hate cancer. I am a rectal cancer survivor, and while I was going through treatment, a friend’s 2 y/o son was diagnosed with neuroblastoma (your story sounds similar to his). He is doing well today (originally diagnosed in 2006), so please have faith that this awful cancer is beatable. You’ll all remain in my prayers.
Amie Nelsen
/ August 15, 2010Maya,
I have to say that Ronan is one of the most beautiful boys I have ever seen! Look at those blue eyes! I just can’t stop thinking about you and your family. This is something a child and their parents should never have to go through. You have had the best attitude and that will help you to get through this. I continue to pray and send good thoughts your way!
marci kaplan
/ August 15, 2010Hi Maya,
I know about your family and that Ronan and Winston are best buddies from Lauren and I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ronan is such a beautiful child, he melts my heart. I gave Lauren, Laurie Morton’s telephone number, she is the mother of my little hero, Jack who is beating this awful disease right now. Stay positive, talk to Laurie and Zac, meet Jack, and keep staying positive and fight to blast this neuroblastoma out of here! You can do it!!!!! F U Cancer!!!
Tienne
/ August 15, 2010Thompson Family;
When my sister was 6 years old, she was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. Unfortunately, she still needed a shunt installed and had to undergo emergency brain surgery. When she came out of the surgery, the doctors told my family that she would never walk, talk, see, or hear again. They also told us that the likelihood that she would live beyond puberty was slim and if she did, most likely she would be a “vegetable.”
Fortunately, my mother was an optimist and my grandmother a devout believer in the power of prayer. My grandmother and her prayer group had a mass prayer for my sister while my mother sat in the room with my sister holding her hand so that she would know someone was there with her as she could not see or hear.
About an hour after the prayer took place my sister looked at my mother and asked her “Mommy, what’s wrong.” At that point it hadn’t even occurred to my mother that she was even talking and she replied “Nothing.” To which my sister replied “Yes there is, I can tell.”
Not only could she talk, she could obviously see and hear. The only thing left was to teach her to walk again. Within three days of surgery my mother had her dangling her feet over the side of the bed. Within a week she was taking her first steps.
Today, my sister is 29 years old and has graduated from a major university with a Masters degree in psychology. She is currently working on her doctoral degree.
Just a few years ago, we had a similar experience with my mother. 12 years ago she had her fourth heart attack and was given one year to live by a team of heart specialists. My mother is alive and well today. She often struggles with her energy level, but otherwise she lives a normal life.
The only advice I have to give is “DON’T GIVE UP ON HOPE!” Hope is, I believe, what saved my sister…hope, I believe, is what allowed me to have my mother at my wedding…hope, in spite of what others may say, I believe, is a tangible thing…don’t give up on your hope…don’t let go of your hope…have faith and push yourselves and your beautiful boy beyond your perceived limits…that is where hope lies.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Angie
/ August 16, 2010My heart is hurting for your entire family. I am so, so sorry you have to go through this. I heard your story through Mark & Lindsey Beller, dear friends, and you have been in my thoughts every day since. We will continue to watch for updates and wish happy, happy thoughts for you and especially Ronan.
The McLaughlin Family
/ August 16, 2010Thompson Family,
We were notified through your family upon Ronan’s diagnosis. We have many friends at PCH as we 100% believe you are in the right place. Our Daughter Marley was diagnosed with a Massive Cancerous brain turmor when she was two years old. We spent almost 2.5 months at PCH after she had an 11 hour surgery. Marley is going to celebrate her 5th bday next month and is cancer free. She has MRI’s every 3 months with the next one this Thursday. The reason I share this with you is that we can relate just to about anything your going through right now and in the future. We have witnessed a miralce in Marley and know miracles do happen so we remain prayerful for not only Ronan but your entire family. All things are truly possible through God.
If there is anything you need, want to talk, want us to stop by on Thursday to say hello, anything we are here for you.
Pat, Holly, Marley, Jack and Austin Mclaughlin
Kim Walters
/ August 17, 2010Hi Woody and Maya,
My name is Kim Walters, and I am friends with your mom and Jim. Maya, today I felt an urge to see your mom, and caught her right before she left the restaurant. We went back inside and talked, cried, and I prayed for Ronan and for each one of you. I have been a director of New Hope Cancer Recovery here in Longview. I have been encouraging men and women with cancer and also their family members for the last 16 years. My heart immediately went out to all of you. I am saddened that your beautiful little angel has to endure this sort of affliction. My prayer is for HOPE to arise is the midst of each moment of each day!!! Your mom shared that his name means “WARRIOR” which means a “VICTORY” shout when this battle is over!!!!! I will make sure your mom and Jim are being encouraged along the way!!
Keeping you close in our prayers.
Blessings,
Kim and Jeff Walters
Kathy Thompson
/ August 17, 2010To the Thompson family,
All of the “other” Thompsons in AZ and TX (and Snells) are daily lifting up Ronan in prayer as you all face each day with courage, determination, and knowledge that he will be victorious! Fight on!
With love, Kathy Thompson
Janel
/ August 17, 2010Maya, Woody and family~
I just heard the news this morning from my mom. I’ve been traveling and have not been online. Right away I got on your blog and my eyes filled with tears as I read your story Maya.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful little man Ronan….. and I’m thinking of you all! I’ve read your blog Maya and you are so strong and your baby boy it too! Be strong. Love you.
~Janel Hammer
Nance Harris
/ August 17, 2010So glad the twins had fun with their brother and cousins, they need to be held up in prayer too. What a large, extended family you have that will help you at the drop of a hat. The month with your Mother will be treasure always.
Don’t know why cancer is so prevalent, is it something we breathe or eat now??? It is horrible and happens to some of the dearest and most innocent people.
Maya and Woody stick together, grow closer, let the Lord hold you up.
Tiffany Berwind
/ August 17, 2010Maya- You amaze me every single day. You and your family have been thrown into such a tough situation and your outlook on and perception of things has been nothing short of admirable. You are truly an amazing wife and mother! Thank you for opening your hearts to so many families. It saddens me that it is under such difficult circumstances that my family has learned so much about how wonderful the Thompson family is. You all have filled the hearts of the Berwind family so much over the past week. You have many people rooting for your family and if there is such thing as strength in numbers, this is a fight your family will win. Nathaniel and I will continue to pray for your entire family throughout this tough time.
Wishing your beautiful family the very best!
Lee Ratterman
/ August 17, 2010Maya & Woody
I just learned of Ronan’s battle and wanted to reach out to you to let you know that if you need anything – please don’t hesitate to ask. At this point I am guessing you aren’t really thinking about what anyone can do or how they can help. I would be happy to help with the boys as Charlie would love to have them over to play or spend the night so that you and Woody can be together with Ronan.
I will keep Ronan in my thoughts and I KNOW he will win this battle, I don’t know him well, but I do know he is a strong boy and he will fight this will everything he has.
All my love,
Lee, Charlie and the whole Ratterman family
Sarah Theoret
/ August 18, 2010I heard about your story through a facebook friend. I just wanted you to know a mother in Michigan is praying for you and your family. God is in the miracle working business and I don’t doubt Him now! He hears our prayers, and most importantly He has His angels by Ronan’s side through all of this.
Alexia Haugen
/ August 18, 2010I have had Ronan on my mind all day since I heard of his illness this morning. We are all praying and thinking of Ronan and your family during this trying time. Please let me know if there is anything me and my family can do. Be strong on the days you feel good, rest on the days you feel weak and the days in between look to your most precious boy and gain strength from him. Keep you faith stong, you are so fortunate to be surrounded by so many people that love your family.
All our love,
Alexia, Zachary, and the whole Haugen Family
Kimber lacey(walker)
/ August 18, 2010I have been praying everyday for your baby boy and your family. I am also a mother and I can’t even imagine how hard this is for you. I ask the Lord every night to give you strength and comfort to get threw this nightmare. Just know that presence in Ronan’s room Is the Lord Jesus with him. Put your faith in Jesus even if you can’t understand why this is happening . Jesus says all it takes is a mustard seed of faith and you can move Mountains, I believe he hears our prayers. Your baby sounds strong, he will get threw this.
Kim Lacey (walker)
Andrew & Genevieve Shapley
/ August 18, 2010Hi Woody and Maya. Kirk informed me that your son Ronan is going through a difficult time. I’m sure you two have been great parents and he has a lot to live for! If he’s anything like Woody, he will grow up to be an intelligent and good guy. From the picture on the left, it looks like he already has good looks going for him.
My wife said she will put him on our church prayer list this weekend. There will be hundreds here in Portland, praying for his recovery! Cancer is a horrible thing, my Dad passed away from it in 2007. Ronan can beat this. He’s young and his immune system is fresh and strong. We wish him well!
Kelly, Derrick and Gracie Kitts
/ August 18, 2010Maya, Woody, Ronan, Liam and Quinn…We love you all so much and have you in our thoughts from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed. Gracie sure loves her little guy “Baby Ronan”. You are much stronger than most and your positive attitute has given us such hope for you and Ronan. We love you “to the moon and back”! Lots of hugs, kisses and happy prayers from the Kitts Family.
Nancy Roach
/ August 18, 2010Maya, thank you so much for your wonderful words and letting us have a part in this fight. The first thing I do each morning now is look and search for a post from you and read it. It is always inspiring and reminds me that prayer can make miracles.
Following is a small saying that helped me when my Dad had cancer:
What Cancer Cannot Do:
Cancer is so limited–
It cannot cripple love
It cannot shatter hope
It cannot corrode faith
It cannot destroy peach
It cannot kill friendship
It cannot surpress memories
It cannot silence courage
It cannot invade the soul
It cannot steal eternal life
It cannot conquer the spirit
You and Ronan and all your special angels are proving that this saying is correct. Keep up the good fight and know that we love you and support you. Nancy
Andrew & Genevieve Shapley
/ August 20, 2010Hello this is Genevieve
Andrew’s wife and we have a 3yr old Daughter so this really strikes a cord with me I wanted to tell you we are putting your family on a prayer card at our church they pray every Tuesday… We are very heart broken for what you are going through, We pray and hope the chemo works only in the best of ways in Ronan…Here is a song I hope you can find strength as the lyrics are powerful! Your little man is beautiful and God I pray will work his miracles to save your baby.
Melissa DiFilippo
/ August 20, 2010Maya,
I just can’t stop thinking about you and your family. I was just amazed today speaking to you and love your attitude.
We will continue to think of you, pray and hope Ronan is well soon.
Sincerely, The DiFilippo Family
rockstarronan
/ August 21, 2010Thank you so much:) I can’t wait to get to know you better, I can already tell we’re going to be great friends:) Hug my big boys for me. Although I can’t be there with them during this time at school, hopefully I can be later on in the year:)
Melissa DiFilippo
/ August 22, 2010I promise! I will take lots of photos in class for you too and fill you in on everything that is going on in class .
Robert< Donna & Ryan Wood
/ August 21, 2010To the beautiful Thompson Family, Wow life sure has away of challenging us and our strength. I know you as a family have the strength to face the challenges and deal with the issues at hand. We are faced with making choices and decisions that we have no control of. Ronan has the best support, love and care in your family. You are blessed with having a very supportive family and many friends who care for you. All of us are hurting with you, and sending you the most positive energy, faith and strength to handle what God has decided that you can give him the love and support to help him on this journey. Love You The Wood’s Robert, Donna & Ryan
Sandey
/ August 24, 2010Thank you for allowing me to be with you and your family today. Ronan is a beautiful boy with a special heart. My thoughts, tears and prayers will be with you each day. I can only wish that the photos bring you and your family a warm smile.
With kind love,
Sandey
cheryl houser
/ August 24, 2010Woody & Maya, I used to work for CPT at APS. So sorry to hear of your darling little guy’s health issue. He’s a doll! Charlie & Kay are two of the nicest people I’ve ever met. My family will certainly keep the Thompson family in our prayers.
kristen furcini
/ August 26, 2010Please let us know if we can help in any way. My husband built your home and if you need anything, please don’t hesitate to call us. I know all little stresses seem bigger when you are emotional spent. May God bless you with laughter and love with your little man each and every day. How blessed in your son to have such a wonderful mother.
Gods Peace
Kristen Furcini
rockstarronan
/ August 26, 2010Thank you, Kristen. Your husband is an amazing man and we loved working with him. Look forward to having him help us finish up our house in the future. xoxo
Fernanda Borletti
/ August 27, 2010Dear Maya, I just got back to Mexico and got the news about Ronan. I have read every word on your blog and cannot stop thinking about you. I have decided that I will pray for Ronan’s fast recovery every time I see something beautiful. Like a pretty sky, like a smile or like an act of kindness.
I truly hope that if a test like this comes my way, I am able to deal with it with the same courage, humbleness and love that I can read from your words.
I’m sitting outside and good enough there is a hummingbird, so there goes another little prayer your way. Wishing that Ronan just kicks ass… He will.
Much love,
Fernanda
Celeste Dunoyer
/ August 28, 2010Maya and Woody,
I am so very sorry that Ronan is sick.
As a mother I can’t imagine what you must be going through. I don’t know if there is really anything that anyone can say to ease your troubles. But, as uncertain as I feel about what to say I am certain that you have the strength to survive this as a family. Take strength from your loved ones and friends, and know that even though you are fighting there are many people behind you.
I am sending you all my positive thoughts and praying for his fast recovery. I will think of him and you every day.
All my best wishes,
Celeste
Nancy Singer
/ August 29, 2010Dear Maya and Woody,
We are so sorry to hear what you all are going through. You have a beautiful family and such sweet boys. Maya, your words are truly an inspiration to us all. Please know that your family is constantly in our thoughts and in our prayers. Wishing Ronan a full and speedy recovery and love and strength to you all.
Warmly,
Nancy Singer
leslie
/ August 29, 2010Many thoughts and prayers for you!
Bridget
/ August 31, 2010We are praying for Ronan! We would love to come along side you and support you in this journey. HopeKids provides support for children just like Ronan! Go to our website http://www.HopeKids.org and click on become an HopeKid, Please feel free to email me at Bridget@HopeKids.org if you have any questions. We will continue to pray for him! HUGS!
Kim
/ August 31, 2010Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful boy. Praying for strength and healing and many good things for Ronan and your family!
Marcy Shipman
/ September 2, 2010I recently heard about your story on Layla Grace Marsh’s website. I’ve never met you, but I just want to know how much your story has touched me, much the way Layla Grace’s did. I am a mother of twins, as well, so I think all twin moms have a similar bond in that way. You are such a strong, phenominal woman and I am simply amazed at the strength you have found. Thank you so much for openly sharing your story. I have recently started the process of volunteering in the local children’s hospital here in the oncology center and I am deathly afraid of hospitals so I’ve been worried sick about it. But hearing Ronan’s story reminds me why I’m doing this, and hearing the strength you have reminds me that its the least I can do. Please know, that I will be sending up prayers for Rockstar Ronan each and everyday from here in Texas. I know with your strength, courage, hope, and prayers that he will make it through this battle and I can’t wait to read about his victory in the end.
Meghan Fable
/ September 4, 2010Maya, Woody, Ronan, Liam and Quinn….
Hello from the Fable Family. Hudson says “hi” to his preschool buddies L & Q. Our hearts and prayers are with you. We are good friends of the Nelson’s and now host for the last 6 years a golf tournament for Neuroblastoma at our course in Mesa. We are also friend’s with the Holders. Brava Ava is a NB warrior like Ronan. So, we have watched two children and their families on the journey you are now on. We will faithfully read your blog and support you in any way we can. Happy to bring meals, fold laundry, run errands. Really, I mean it. Maya my cell is 602.363.5659. Email is mef@daedalusllc.com. Friends of Maya and Woody, please call on us if needed as well. In the meantime, you will all be in our prayers. With love and hope,
The Fable Family…Meghan, Court, Claire & Hudson
Dani Kalafat
/ September 7, 2010Dear Maya and Woody,
I have been reading your blog every day since I first heard of Ronan’s cancer weeks ago. It is one of the first things I do when I log onto my computer every morning at work. I have wanted to write to you a dozen times but I could never think of what to say. I still don’t have the perfect words for something like this. I really just want you to know that I am praying for Ronan, that Jason and I love you and I am so amazed and inspired by how beautiful and strong your family is. I hug my kids a little tighter every night now. I just know Ronan is going to beat this.
Love,
Dani Kalafat
Lynda Peabody
/ September 7, 2010Maya and Woody, I am Mark’s mother, Lynda, and I met you all in Arizona the summer Roman was born – he was the most beautiful baby with all that black hair, I think he was about 3 weeks old, I was visiting Mark and Pam and my little twins, Meggie and Mitchell, Kay invited us to swim that day at the Biltmore Hotel pool. Maya was swimming with Quinn and Liam and I was holding Ronan and walking with him and telling him that his Mom and bothers were swimming and splashing the water. When Mark called me to tell me about Ronan, I was in shock. I go on to rockstarronan.com everyday and read everything that you have written Maya. I cry and laugh and there is not a day that goes by when I do not think of what your family is going through. Charlie and Kay are the most wonderful people I think I have ever met – you are so lucky to have their help and love. I pray every night for you all and I even have my mother and my sisters praying for Ronan too. I know Ronan will pull out of this, he sounds like a great fighter….I send my love to you.
Sheri Freemont and Jorge Castaneda
/ September 9, 2010Woody, Maya and family,
We went to law school with Woody and were lucky enough to work with him as well. We are so saddened by this terrible time that your family is enduring and our thoughts are with you everyday. Ronan is so beautiful and strong, and so are those adorable twins. Letting us in to this experience via your writings is so touching, and honestly reminds us of how much hope there really is. You are doing an amazing job, and he is such a trooper, we just know that he will stomp the crap out of this cancer.
All our love and hope, Sheri and Jorge
Stacy Batcheller
/ September 12, 2010Hi Maya,
I learned about your family through Dave Honga. I am a mother of 2 young children as well and check your blog daily. I pray for you and your family daily, and most of all Ronan. He is one of the most beautiful child I have seen. You are a very strong woman. You have so many people praying for you in this difficult time. Love to you and your beautiful strong family. Stacy
Sher
/ September 13, 2010My heart truly does go out to you at this challenging time in little Ronan’s life. September is Childhood Cancer Awareness month and I too know the devastating effects this disease has on any family faced with it. Our grandaughter Mila passed away at 2 1/2 from a brainstem glioma.
Know there are others who truly understand what your heart and mind are going through. It amazes me to this day what tremendous strength parents have who are faced with this unfair challenge to their childs health. Prayer is a powerful tool and you and your sweet little Ronan are in mine today and everyday. If you are a member of Facebook, I invilte you to join our group In Memory of Mila Phillips…there are so many who are wanting to add there prayers to your little ones fight. I would like to add this site to my facebook page if you have no objections. If you don’t wish me to, I will understand.
My prayers are with you and know there are many who send their support and love to all of you.
Hugs
Sher
Katie
/ September 19, 2010Hi Maya,
It’s Katie (your med student from PCH). Thank you for sharing this with me (and all of us who read). I look forward to reading about you and your family everyday – it’s nice to continue to get to know you. You, Woody, and your whole team (and Ronan) are some of the strongest people I have met. I look forward to hearing more about Ronan’s progress and I hope to one day see you all again! My thoughts are with all of you
Best wishes,
Katie
Brandi Okrasinski
/ September 20, 2010Maya,
We have never met, but I have gotten to know Woody through work over the past several years. I have always thought he was one of the nicest people and he always speaks so lovingly and proudly of his family. I am thinking of and praying for you and your family. I will be following your blog and can’t wait to see the post where you declare Ronan cancer free.
Hang in there Thompson Family!!
Brandi Beougher Okrasinski
Lori Lewis
/ September 25, 2010Maya
I would love to get some of the shirts to sell at the pool and to the members of La Camarilla. Let me know if this is possible and how to arrange this.
Rachel
/ September 25, 2010Just found out about little Ronan from a poster in Longview, WA advertising the car show. We were unable to make it, but wanted to let you know about C.O.L.E.’s foundation, which is a support group for families with children with cancer.
http://www.colesfoundation.com/
To learn more about Cole, the amazing little boy who’s testimony started it all visit,
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/coleruotsala
Keeping you in our prayers.
devonj
/ September 26, 2010just stay strong ! my little 5 year old cousin was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma over the summer,Stage 1.They were able to take out the tumor,and she managed without any chemo at all! She has now been cancer-free for 3 months! She went from being a frail,sickly little girl who always fell down and couldn’t see straight to being a running,Irish-dancing little girl who has the most beautiful eyes in the world,and she’s able to see straightly! Staying strong is the largest key with anyone who has a family member battling cancer.I hope that Ronan continues to be RockstarRonan for a very very long time.I will pray everyday for him.
Jessie
/ September 27, 2010Hello,
I’m not sure how I stumbled upon your blog. But here I am. I can see you have many comments but if you do get to read this I wanted to share something with you.
My name is Jessie.
When I was little I had neuroblastoma.
I am incredibly lucky and it was removed along with one of my adrenal glands. My heart goes out to you, Ronan and your family as I think of what my parents must have gone through when I was so young. That was in 1989 and on September 3 this year I had my 21st birthday. I am cancer free and have been for many years. I spent my childhood growing up with other children who were sick on camps run by Camp Quality. I know that there is nothing I can say to ease your troubles but in the words you have written I read hope and such strength. In brings a few tears to my eyes to write this as I have not ever met anyone who had the same cancer as I, and although I was young when diagnosed it has impacted my life and the way I see it greatly.
Please feel free to email me if you wish.
I just wanted to say that here in Australia you are in my thoughts.
Kindly
Jessie
rockstarronan
/ September 27, 2010I try to read all of my comments. Thank you, Jessie! I love hearing inspiring stories like your own!! Please pass along Ronan’s blog to everyone and everyone you can. Maybe someday we will get to Australia to meet you. I’ve always wanted to visit your beautiful home!
Gabriel Velasquez
/ September 27, 2010You are in our hearts and prayers. If there is anything we can do to help, please let us know.
We represent the Phoenix Children’s Hospital Kids Rock Stars program. We started a program to provide an acoustic guitar for kids and help them through music.
Sincerely,
The V-Knights
http://www.vknights.com
anoela1336
/ September 27, 2010I have stumbled up on your blog through another blog entry that was on the front page of wordpress last night. I have to say that you have truly inspired me as a person. You are such a strong mother and I have so much respect for you. There is nothing I can possibly say to show how sorry I am for your tough situation but I have faith that, your little boy with all the angels, god and such a strong family on his side will beat this awful disease. I will keep you in my prayers every day.
amanda
Dawn
/ September 29, 2010What a beautiful boy you have…my heart breaks looking at those gorgeous eyes and thinking of what he and your family have to endure. I have a four year old son as well, he is my world…I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling. Ronan and your family are in my thoughts and prayers…stay strong little one!
Marci Kaplan
/ September 29, 2010Maya and family, I just wanted you to know i think of you each and everyday. I am praying for you and know that you WILL get through this nightmare. Stay positive, optimistic and strong. You are survivors and we will blast the hell out of this neuroblastoma. F U NEUROBLASTOMA!
In love and friendship, Marci and family
Journey's Mom
/ September 30, 2010God Bless you and your family. Our prayers are for you! Sending much love to you!
Mandi Gallagher
/ October 1, 2010http://news.ucsf.edu/releases/less-chemotherapy-works-well-for-some-childhood-cancer/
Charo
/ October 9, 2010I am across this on Twitter, it was tweeted by the winner of Alyson Hannigan’s Twitchange. There is a mother going through the same thing here in the Philippines, the mother of Mio. She is our batchmate in school. My thoughts and prayers are with you, even if I’m on the other side of the world. Be strong.
Mary
/ October 15, 2010Hi Maya and Woody,
I have never met you but share something in common with Maya. I am from Longview, WA. I work at Moonlight Bay for Hilda Schierscher, we have been pulling so hard for you here! We wear Rockstar Ronan shirts on Wednesdays and Fridays in support of little man. Little Ronan is on the top of my prayer list. Think of him and your family daily and keep up with your blog. I have a little man of my own, 17 months, and could not IMAGINE what you are going through. He truly is a little Brad Pitt! Many many many prayers. I look forward to your thoughts in peeling the girls off of him throughout his teen years. What a strong little man you have and what strong parents you are. God Speed! love and prayers.
Mary and the Moonlight Bay Crew
Amy
/ October 20, 2010Maya – your strength and spirit is an inspiration to us all. I have been following your blog closely and have smiled, cried, and prayed with you over the weeks and months. We’re all pulling for you and your beautiful family and precious son and have you in our hearts and prayers constantly. xoxo Amy
Jamon Nester
/ October 23, 2010Hello Thompsons!
Just a quick note to let you know you are all in our thoughts and hearts constantly. Sending positive vibes your way all the time. Sounds like mom and dad are staying strong and positive, which I truly believe is THE KEY to Ronan’s success, as well as your own.
Thank you for keeping us updated. Maya, my daughter and I have enjoyed getting to know Ronan and the happenings of the Thompson Family through your continued efforts.
We are here for you and cheering you on!
XOXO
Jamon & Jayden Nester
Tucson, AZ
Kelly Kitts
/ October 25, 2010Maya..Just want you to know that I think of you and Ronan every single day…you are in my heart always and your strength will get you and your rockstar through this!! I love you mama!
Rachel
/ November 3, 2010I read about Ronan at the Water Connection store in phoenix. I heard that you are trying to get him to New York in December for surgery but that he cannot fly commercial. I got in contact with someone who I thought might be able to help. So far, he sent me the link to this website which offers jet transportation with the possibility of insurance paying for it. If this website can’t help you guys out, my friend said he will look into more options. I’m praying for you and your family!
Rachel
/ November 3, 2010Visit: http://angelmedflight.com/index.html
julia
/ November 16, 2010hi maya,
i am originally from kelso and my parents, who still live there, told me a little about your story. i have since been following your blog and it has inspired me to want to do something. i have small kids, 3 yr old and 6 month old, and i cannot begin to fathom facing this all as you are. i won’t even try to say i understand. so i have recently signed up to run a marathon and am going to raise funds for american cancer society while doing so. and it is because i took the time to let you open my eyes to what some people face. your blog is so enlightening to what the reality is for people facing this fight. when my kid gets the flu (or whatever) now, you better believe i won’t be bitching about it. i will be thanking my lucky stars that thats all he’s got. all the best…….
if my fundraising goes well, and i can get my ass across the finish line of the marathon, i would love to perhaps do something for your foundation someday.
julia
Angela
/ November 27, 2010I just saw your story on New channel 12. I have a 17 year old daughter who is a Neuroblastoma survivor. She was diagnosed at 2 months old. I was so touched by your story, and know of your struggles. I feel that there is this unspoken rule that we are all family going through this terrible cancer together. I live in Arizona as well, and I want you to know that if there is EVER anything I could do for you, please know I’m here for you! Ronan is ADORABLE! He will remain in my prayers! God bless! ~Angela
Molly McCord
/ December 1, 2010Maya and Woody,
Amie told me about Ronan’s fight and I’ve been following your story diligently. His every step and your whole journey is being guided and blessed right now. I posted his story and the news clip on my website, http://www.BeMoxie.com to spread the word and raise awareness. Good things are ahead in 2011 for your family, I can feel it.
I’m typing this while wearing my Rockstar Ronan bracelet, the best accessory ever!
Best,
Molly McCord
rockstarronan
/ December 2, 2010Thanks Molly! What you wrote about Ronan’s journey was beautiful!
Suzanne
/ December 3, 2010Hi Lovely Thompson Family!
I was paying for my ice today at The Water Connection and my eyes went directly to those of your son’s, as they stared up from the little card on the counter…he is beautiful!
I offered some honest, no-strings-attached information and was told that perhaps you would be interested in hearing. Of course, I am a stranger and know that you have probably had lots of unwanted advice from people you don’t know. That being said, Ronan’s photo was put there for a reason; so, here goes…hopefully this can help:
http://anoasisofhealing.com/
This is a comprehensive cancer care center in Mesa that uses an array of modalities to help get and keep cancer patients healthy, even when they’ve been told there is little to be done. Some of the testimonials bring tears to my eyes.
Whether you take a look at this site and Learn about Dr. Lodi or not, I sincerely wish you all of the best in your journey.
Many hugs and thousands of well wishes from Stranger #3,762.
Kristen
/ December 23, 2010Mya,
Ronan, you and the entire family have been on my mind a lot lately. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ronan is brave and the surgery will go flawlessly! Be calm and believe. Ronan is a fighter and you are much stronger then you will ever truly know.
Merry Christamas, Ronan is your Christmas Miracle.
Sincerely,
Kristen M. PCH
Matthew Cassi
/ January 3, 2011Maya,
Just read about your situation on facebook and came to this site to find out more information. Keep your head up and know that you have a huge group of friends and family members praying for you and keeping you in their thoughts. Your little rockstar is adorable!! Never underestimate the power of the LIFE, it will surprise you! I wish you and your family strength during these trying times.
Sincerely,
Matthew Byron Cassi
Susan
/ January 5, 2011We will pray for Ronan and send as many positive vibes as we can his direction. We wish for your family much more good news.
The Bode Family
mandy haber
/ January 12, 2011Please join me in supporting this amazing foundation on February 9th, 2011 at Narcisse in the Scottsdale Quarter… Space is limited so please go to the Las Palomas website and secure your spot!!
100% of all donations will go directly to the Ronan Thompson Foundation
Hope to see you all there!!
xo
February Las Palomas Luncheon!
http://www.laspalomas.org
Christia
/ January 15, 2011Hello, my name is Christia. I was given this website address by a classmate of mine. We are in nursing school together and she use to go to high school with Ronan’s daddy (jessica). She sent this to me because I love children and also it doesn’t hurt to have one more person praying for you. It just so happens that I work at Phoenix Children’s Hospital I wonder if I have ever passed you in the halls. Your journey is inspiring. As a mother my heart aches to see any child in pain, but I love my job and where I work. Miracles happen everyday. So my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you need anything please don’t hesitate to ask. Thanks for sharing your familes journey.
Suba
/ February 7, 2011God bless your lil Ronan and your beautiful family. Our prayers are sent your way this evening…God Bless.
Shelley
/ February 14, 2011Happy Valentines Day to a beautiful Mom & Dad and your family. I see and feel such compassion, warmth and love and thanks so much for sharing Ronan with all of us. I love you today and every day.
Joe Hathoot
/ April 3, 2011Woody and Maya,
I spoke with the office on Weds. and asked Suzanne how everything was going with Rockstar Ronan. She mentioned there was the website and I could get more information on it. WOW, this little young man is courageous, tough, and a fighter!!!!!
The ordeal I went through pales in comparison to the plight of this Star!!!!
Woody, at one time in our dealings you said you would “Treat my case like you were representing your brother”!!! I totally believed you and I think you did, and I appreciate that!
Now, I am hoping and praying with all my heart that my brother’s son will fight through this and make it out of harms way!!!!
I and alot of people I know and love are praying for little Ronan!!!
God Bless all of you always!!!!!
Joe Hathoot
Scottsdale Az
Pasha
/ April 18, 2011Maya.. be strong! and believe.. ı pray everynite for u and ur son… he will be all right.. god bless you all <3
Selene Shockency
/ April 21, 2011Friends,
Keep praying, never give up! Fight this cancer with all of the prayer and love that you have, and just when you think that you are going to give up, KEEP GOING!
Jen Searle
/ April 23, 2011Maya, after meeting you on the flight from Newark to Phoenix, I needed to come see Ronan’s site. There was something about you and Ronan, when you walked onto the plane, that I felt an immediate connection. While I am fighting a different kind of cancer (brain cancer), I am just drawn to families fighting the fight. I know we only had a few minutes to talk, and you all were so tired, I just had to reach out and let you know that you all will be in my thoughts and prayers. What a gorgeous boy – after seeing the pics, you weren’t kidding about those eyes – my word! What a handsome and brave little man! If you ever need anything, I am in town and would love to help – or to talk, anything. Hugs and prayers to you all.
Liz
/ April 28, 2011I will keep you and your family in my prayers always.
Stacey Boltz
/ April 28, 2011Maya,
I just became aware of your family’s situation for the first time today. Our social circles appear to be related, so suspect we may have met at some point. Have thought about you, your family and Ronan many times today. Frankly haven’t been able to do so without a few tears, lots of hope and many prayers going out to you and your family. There are no words… only wishes… so mine are all yours.
Warm regards,
Stacey
- Mother of 2 and 3 year old boys.
Sue Watt
/ April 29, 2011I can only hope that I would be half the mother you are if one of my children is ever struck by this bastard of a disease. Please know that people everywhere are crying with you. I, like you and your husband, have ALWAYS despised the saying “everything happens for a reason” and I have always stated my hatred for this stupid saying to anyone who will listen. For some things, there are no reasons; even if there were reasons suggested, would there be ANY that would be satisfactory. I will think of you and Ronan and your twins and your husband in the coming weeks and hope with all of my heart that you all find strength, together, to see Ronan through. Much respect, warmth, and many tears for you,
Sue
Summer
/ May 2, 2011What a beautiful child you have-you should be so proud of yourself. It must be so hard but remember God gives you no challenge that you can’t handle. Be strong through this Ro looks up to you. I’m so sorry that this tragedy has struck your family. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Colleen
/ May 3, 2011I read your latest blog “the next person that tells me…” I just want to say Sorry for those of us that are inconsiderate with our words and try to say things to make us feel better before we think of how they may affect you. I share your blogs on my facebook and ask my friends to pray for you. I wear a bracelet daily so when I see it I remember to pray for you often. My heart aches for you. My sister recently lost her granddaughter and posted this comment about people speaking, I thought you would appreciate it. She added your comment to her previous post to reiterate the impact of commenting before we think about it.
Before you speak…
by Connie Phelan Iddings on Tuesday, May 3, 2011 at 12:00pm
“Everything happens for a reason.You were given this because you were strong enough to handle this. God has a greater plan for your child. Your child wants to go home, where he belongs in Heaven, so just let him go. At least you had as long as you did with her and you have other grandchildren, at least you can be grateful for that. You’ll be a better, stronger person because of all of this. ”
These are comments given to a Mother whose child is battling for his life and to other Mother’s and Grandmother’s who have lost their babies.
Think about it. Seriously. Stop and think about it. To a Mom and to a Grandma, there simply does not exist any justifiable “reason” for our babies to suffer and die.
I am sure that God is taking care of our babes, but when you say God had a better plan, what exactly are you implying? That we somehow didn’t deserve our children-our parenting plan didn’t suffice while millions of others did? That God handpicked our babies to pluck out of our arms because he had a better plan? God is not cruel. His plan is to bless and not to harm us. (Jeremiah 29:11) I’m pretty sure it had very little to do with “God’s perfect plan.” I like how William P. Young author of The Shack puts it,
“Just because I work incredible good out of unspeakable tragedies doesn’t mean I orchestrate the tragedies. Don’t
ever assume that my using something means I caused it or that I need it to accomplish my purposes. That will only lead you to false notions about me. Grace doesn’t depend on suffering to exist, but where there is suffering you will find grace in many facets and colors.”
Never tell a parent their child is better off or tell a mother that her child wanted to leave her even to go to heaven, it’s like sticking a knife in her already broken heart. We don’t want our children to suffer. No good mother does. But, to add guilt to her grief by suggesting she is being selfish for going to any and every length to help her child survive and for wanting to hold onto her child as long as absolutely possible is unforgivable.
Don’t think for one moment that we aren’t eternally grateful for every millisecond of time we were given. Whether it is a few moments, or decades it matter not, our baby is now gone. We are grateful for all the yesterdays but we still want the tomorrow’s. We want our children with us today, right now and would give absolutely anything to have them.
Don’t get us wrong, we love and are grateful for all our children and grandchildren that are still with us, as we’ll also be for those we’ll be blessed with in the future, but that does not diminish our love or desire for those lost.
Please never, ever tell a grieving Parent or Grandparent that they will be stronger, better people because of the death of their child. No one wants to benefit from the death of a child. We know you mean well, but it plants thoughts in our mind like, “What if I was a stronger and better person to begin with? Would my baby have been spared?” Is that your intention? I highly doubt it.
Before you speak, pause to hug us and think. Tell us you are sorry. Let us cry and talk as much and as often about our baby without being made to feel guilty that you feel uncomfortable. Please don’t tell us that you think it is time we move on, leave that to the well-trained therapists. Our grief may remind you that we live in a world where children die before they are suppose to; a fact you may want to forget, but we don’t want anyone to forget our babies. We also don’t want anyone else to suffer needlessly if there is anything we can do about it. Therefore, we will keep talking about our children and about their death if we think it will help someone. It is important for everyone that we do.
We know it is difficult. Believe me, we know! We understand most people have no idea what to say or that some things are far more hurtful to say than they ever realized. I tell you now so that you will know. I, myself most likely said these very statements in an attempt to comfort others in their grief and offer answers for questions we all have, that there are simply no answers to-at least for now.
I close with a statement from a grieving Mother, “I love you all as always, as long as you don’t say any of those idiotic things…to me. Even if you think them, please don’t say them. They don’t give me strength at all.”
Strength is what we need and what we need more than all is your unconditional love. Before you speak, pause and just give us your love.
God Bless, my prayers are with you continually
Hannah
/ May 7, 2011Maya,
Im only a 14 year old girl but your story breaks my heart. Ronan is the most beautiful child i have ever seen. He is truly a fighter. my aunts school knows your mom and that is how i heard about Ronan. Sometimes i wonder why God does the things he does? to the people he does it to? I dont think anybody could answer that. I do know that God is watching over your family right now and there has been prayers lifted up to him, that i believe he has been listening to. I know it may seem like the end, but the truth is there never is a ending. I wish the best for your family. Keep fighting little Ronan! I hope you have a great mothers day tomorrow with your family.
-Hannah
Quinn Bayless
/ May 8, 2011Never, ever stop fighting… I believe in you, your family, and Ronan.
Laura
/ May 9, 2011Our hearts are so sadden by all that your family has gone through. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. All our love always.
Hannah
/ May 9, 2011If God brings you to it, he’ll pull you through it.
Francina Grant
/ May 9, 2011Our love is with you! Now, forever, and always blue eyed angel boy!
Jennifer McCraye
/ May 9, 2011To the Thompson family. One of my moms coworkers went to school with you in Kelso. I am so sorry for little Ronan. You are in my prayers. I am wondering how I can order a bracelet.
emer nolan
/ May 10, 2011Maya, im so sorry to hear ur heartbreaking news. He was the most stunning little boy i have ever seen. I work in a childrens hospital in Glasgow Scotland and I see the kids going through this quiet often i try to shut off as i have 2 kids of my own and i think how i would feel if something happened them. Your story touched me so much I felt like I know you and your family. You are a true inspiration to me and Ronan is so lucky to have such an amazing family. Keep strong for R even though hes not here right now you will see him again and his spirit will live on forever. I wish I could take your pain away and give you ronan back. Im truly heartbroken for you and I hope one day soon that a cure is found for this horrible disease. My thoughts are with you and your family x x x
Monica Ramos
/ May 10, 2011I just want to give my sincere condolences to you and your family. I am a friend of Olivia and have been following your story for a little while now. Your story has touched me personally, and opened my eyes to life in general. We cannot take life for granted and we need to appreciate the people in our lives or the things in life, as tomorrow is not promised. Even though you don’t know me personally, I grieve with your family and my friend Olivia. Please know that there are a lot of people like myself that are grieving with you as well and we will always be inspired by your story and the bravery of Ronan. You will always will be in my thoughts and prayers…
Tina Besco
/ May 10, 2011Mamma Maya, your strength and will as you’ve walked through pure hell with your child in your arms…you held your game face for the sake of all three sons, but damn it…acceptance? You said it – FUCK that.
Your BFF little man, soul mate and you said ‘hell no – not good enough’, and you both fought through the pain. It is so unfair. UNFAIR!
I’m cynical, older than you, childless, and rarely inspired by others. For me to be angry and heartbroken enough to pick up and wave this torch, there must be thousands like me. Where were we before your unfathomable loss? Yet untouched by Ronan…this battle continues, with a larger and vocal army because he was here. How many people do that in four short years? Ronan did. Now is your time for grief, but not alone. None of our lives will be the same again…that is Ronan’s legacy. Thank you from Longview, WA…
Michelle Donahue
/ May 10, 2011I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers and I hope comfort and peace find you soon.
Carolyn LeBlanc
/ May 10, 2011Maya, my heart is broken for you and your family. I read your blog and looked at your pictures, and I have never seen such a beautiful boy. I never met you, or him, but I will never forget his sweet little face. There are no words to say how sorry I am that this unthinkable thing has happened to your family. I will remember your sweet angel of a boy always.
Carolyn
Elisa Strocchio-Bell
/ May 10, 2011As a former JLP member, I know Kay.
Ronan has the most beautiful blue eyes. I say “has” because hopefully, your memories of him will always include him looking back at you, and he will always be with you. My lovely niece also “has” big, beautiful blue eyes. She passed in 2009, four days before her fourth birthday, as your beautiful son did. No words provide comfort for the pain. Not even another person’s understanding of your situation provides comfort. There are no words. I am just so sorry. I wish you strength in your fight against the disease that invaded your son’s body.
Colleen
/ May 12, 2011I wake several times in the night praying for you and my niece who has lost her baby as well and today when I awoke I had these thoughts tossing about so I wrote them down and this is what it ended up as…
Just Yesterday
How could yesterday go from waking bright eyed, busy tailed and a smile…
to heaviness, heartache and exile?
How could yesterday go from a day in the sun, playing, laughing and carefree…
to worrying, praying and just waiting to see?
How could yesterday go from endless laundry, errands, and baseball…
to test results, hospitals, and trying not to fall?
How could yesterday go from sitting down to dinner, baths and bedtime stories…
to medicines, doctors and endless worries?
How could yesterday go from hugging and kissing…
to goodbye and missing?
How could it….because it was just yesterday!
Prayers, Colleen LaBiche (longview)
Carrie
/ May 12, 2011That was very beautiful.
Gianelle
/ January 20, 2012Thats very beautiful
Deliece Hofen
/ May 12, 2011We are so very sorry. I wish I had words…they are inadequate. No parent should have to do this. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you all. Ronan was a beautiful little boy and he was a true warrior. I’m so very sorry!
Deliece Hofen
Yasmine
/ May 12, 2011I don’t know you but i am weeping in disbelief, Ronan is a beautiful angel now. I have experience with this motherfucker disease as my young sister(mother of 4) is battling stage 4 BC. I hope and pray God gives u all the strength and patience in the universe to heal with losing Ronan. RIP ANGEL
Rebecca
/ May 13, 2011I do not know you, I saw a post on facebook of someone wishing your beautiful baby boy to rest easy. I’m not sure whether they knew you or not. I’ve read the blog posts and looked at pictures you have posted and couldn’t ever imagine how hard it would be to lose such an important person in your life. I’m only 17 and have no children, but, although it may not be as strong as yours, i feel pain in my heart while reading about your, your family’s, and Ronan’s hard times. This little angel has impacted not only my life, but many others too. This disease needs to be figured out so beautiful people like your son can live a long and healthy life. I pray for you and your family, and, of course, Rockstar Ronan. Rest easy <3
Pam
/ May 14, 2011Dear Maya,
I am praying for you and Woody and the boys. I wish there was something I could say or do to help but I know there isn’t. You are loved honey. Sincerely, Pam
Pam
/ May 15, 2011Maya, hang on honey, just hang on. I promise it won’t always hurt this bad. And I know, I have lost a child so I can say that much is true. Will it ever not hurt? So far no, it will not. Please know there are a lot of people thinking of you and praying and hoping you hold on. I wish I could just do something, ANYTHING! I remember the crazy awful pain. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other for now k? sincerely, Pam
Rudy Cabrera
/ May 16, 2011Your little boy is so beautiful. I have two young children of my own and cannot imagine going through what you are experiencing. I came across your blog after clicking on a link from my cousin’s blog, whose 6-year-old son is also battling cancer. I am praying for your entire family, especially Ronan and his brothers.
Julie Lee
/ May 19, 2011Maya and Family. You probably don’t remember me but I used to babysit you and Shawn. Mike Bradica is my stepdad, Wendy my mom. I am so sorry for your loss. Our grandson is 3 and this really hit home for me on what you must be feeling. My mom is in heaven with Ronan and she will take such good care of him. She was sick to and now they are both beautiful healthy angels. All my love to you and your family.
Julie Lee, Kelso, WA
Maria
/ May 20, 2011I don´t know you Maya but I am truly sorry for your loss. You are a brave mom, Ronan must be very proud of you. My prayers are with you and your family. God will give you strength to keep on for your little twins and husband.
Jake harvill
/ May 25, 2011So sorry for your loss! What a beautiful little blue eyed angel we now have up above !
Mira Putica
/ May 31, 2011Maya, I only recently came across your blog. Since then I have found myself logging on each afternoon to ‘check on you’ and learn more about your beautiful boy and his journey. I am so very deeply sorry for your loss and all that your family has endured. My husband doesn’t understand why I would want to make myself sad each night, but I want you to know how Ronan and his life have changed mine! Sure, I cry at every single post I read, but I then sneak into my own sons’ bedrooms to smother them with kisses while they sleep. Our days are filled with giggles, and fun and laughter and cuddles. The mess around the house is now so insignificant. The endless calls of “Mama” are no longer irritating but a reminder of how much my three boys depend on me. Ronan is my hero, and so are you and your whole family. It’s a bittersweet ‘thank you’, but THANK YOU for sharing your journey with us all.
Amy Jo
/ June 5, 2011Hi Maya, do you like this? I saw the hummingbird & thought of you……..I don’t know you but a little gift never hurt
if you like it, I’d like to get it for you……..http://www.hautelook.com/product/1820876
Kelly
/ June 6, 2011Hello. My daughter, Addison Jo Blair, passed away on May 27th of Stage IV Neuroblastoma. Our children are defintely in heaven playing together right now. I just wanted to let you know that I am here and in the same boat that you are in if you ever feel like venting. Cancer is a horrible disease and my husband and I plan to devote the rest of our lives to help find a cure. You can see her journey at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/AddisonJoBlair.
Kelly
Mel
/ July 29, 2011Those eyes are magnetic!
Chantal
/ July 31, 2011I am so sorry. In your son’s honor, I will kiss and hold my babies even tighter tonight. Wishing you rest and strength…. Xo
Mike
/ August 18, 2011Hi, My name is Mike and I am a 44 year old father of three girls. I stumbled on your site and started to read… I found myself at a lost for words but felt compelled to reach out to you and your family. I am very sorry and I will pray for you. I hope you find the strength everyday that you need to make it through. With respect.
Mike
Stephanie Young
/ August 19, 2011Hi Maya,
I wanted to let you know how deeply your posts affected me. I am the mother of a 3 year old daughter who was diagnosed with Leukemia when she was 2 1/2 years old. Although I am sure it doesnt help to say but I am so terribly sorry for your loss!!!!!!!!!!! I cannot imagine the pain but I do fear it so much. It is so terribly frightening & difficult to watch your child deal with such an unfair hand in life… one that he/she didnt want or deserve. You truly were his angel in life. I am on meds right now to help me with my sleeping, anxiety, and so on. It is so hard as a mother to endure the mental & emotional anguish of hoping and praying constantly to keep your sick child healthy (even if they aren’t acting sick).
You are an inspirational writer and do it so beautifully. What you express is so raw and true to the core. Thank you for sharing and know that it touches even a perfect stranger.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Stephanie
Alexis
/ September 3, 2011“You’re the first person that has taught me to miss someone. You’ve taught me to miss a person from the heart, not the mind.”
This makes me think of my mom who died 4 years ago. I can’t imagine what you are going through, but losing someone you love so much is the hardest thing anyone could ever go through. I haven’t lost a child, but my mom was 39 when she died and had so much life to live still. So I know that this is the worst feeling ever. I love reading your blog so please don’t ever stop being real.
I hope this quote was okay to share with you. You’re a trooper.
Rebecca Carney - One Woman's Perspective
/ September 13, 2011What a beautiful little guy!! I’m so sorry for your loss.
Stefanie Calrow
/ September 14, 2011Obviously nothing I say will help you. I wish it could. I found your blog from someone on FB and have read alot of it. I just want you to know that because of Ronan and you and your story, it has pushed me to try and understand how important every second is with my babies. When I am running around the house like a chicken with my head cut off, chasing after them and cleaning up messes over and over, stressing out, I now stop and think how lucky I am to be doing so. And that they are making messes. I feel like such an idiot for not realizing this on my own. I mean really realizing it. They currently go to daycare and I miss out on them the whole day while I work. I will be figuring out a way to change this. Because of Ronan. Thank you.
Heather
/ October 16, 2011Dear Maya,
Ronan lives on in the hearts of the many children whose mothers have been touched by you sharing his story. Thank you for helping me realize, through your journey and the loss of your precious son, what is important in life. I will never forget your beautiful son and will honor his memory by becoming a “rockstar”.
Hilary
/ October 19, 2011Maya, I have been following your blog for some time now and just want to let you know that not a day goes by that I don’t think of you, Ronan and your family. Your loss and the sadness that lives with you breaks my heart. I just wish that I could click my fingers and have him back in your arms – happy and well. No family should ever have to endure such endless pain. There are no words of comfort anyone can offer but I hope you can, in some small way, feel the hands of friendship and love reach out to you. I hope in time to come they will give you some comfort. But you shout, scream, cry as much as you need. Grief evolves and you just learn a new life but the loss and missing never ends – how can it when you lose someone so precious and vital to your life.
I just hope that you know that the light from Ronan’s eyes and the love you share will continue to burn brightly in so many people’s hearts. He could never and will never be forgotten. May your days be filled with more sunshine than showers and more light than darkness. I send you hugs from across the miles and special wink to your blue-eyed baby. xx
PS And F U Cancer – you destroy lives and we will destroy you. You cannot win with Maya’s mama mafia after you.
M.Pineda
/ October 28, 2011Magnetic…Mezmorizing…Amazing…these are the words that come to my head when I think of Ronan and you for what you do for him and the community. I came across you blog because of the Layla Grace Foundation, and am hooked. I literally sob and weep for you everyday at work as I read your letters to Ronan. I am obsessed with how real and raw you are. How you don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks. How you are blunt with your words and feelings. I read your blog, the same postings, several times a day sometimes, because it is a constant reminder of how precious my twins are and to not take them for granted one second. I can’t and I won’t pretend to know what you are going through, but I am certain the sadness that overwhelms me for you doesn’t even begin to measure against your giref, and I am sorry for that. Please know that your message, your story is spreading like wildfire. I am waging war against cancer, against people’s perception of cancer/cancer funding/cancer research, agaisnt “corporate” foundations in memory of the precious babies who have lost their lives and the families that have been ripped to shreds because of it. I am spreading Ronan’s story and your site as much as possible. Please don’t stop being you, being real, and kicking ass with the foundation. You rock for Ronan and we support you.
Much love for Ronan, you and your family,
MP
aimee patel
/ November 18, 2011Maya. I have read your blog off and on over the past year I think. I never posted, but I think of you all the time. Your son was so beautiful and your writing brings me to tears every time. I have three daughters- my younger girls are twins (almost 4). I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and your family…..
laura chiappetta
/ December 6, 2011What a beautiful baby you were blessed with and now have an angle watching over you ..xxxx
angela tejedor
/ December 15, 2011wow i just saw story and blogs i cant even imagane if this happen to my son he is four years old i thank god he is healthy thank you so much for educating me on childrens cancer i had know idea so many children have cancer god bless you and your famliy i will continue to follow you what a strong woman you are and a beautiful you had he is honored to have you as his mom you are making a differance in this world i am so happy to get to know your son through your eyes my famliy will continue to support you love the tejedor famliy
Christy
/ December 19, 2011I want to send a little hope your way, here is a link to a little girl named Lana Turners FBK page, She was diagnosed at 3yrs old with stage 4 Neuroblastoma cancer. The doctors didnt give the family much hope, but 2yrs later little Lana is still here with us and very Healthy and Cancer free. I wish you all the best and will be praying for you all. http://www.facebook.com/groups/209476017198/
Shelley Fox
/ December 19, 2011What a good looking child those blue eyes, I send my thoughts and prayers for the whole family !!!! best wishes !!!!!
Julie Burrell
/ December 19, 2011You are so beautiful Ronan!!!!! I bet you are gonna fight with all you have precious baby!!!!! Praying for you and your family!!!! Lots of love from Cleveland, Tn! Hang in there Mom and Dad, God gave you this precious angel, and now God’s going to take great care of him too!!!
God Bless!
jessica
/ December 19, 2011prayers & thoughts go out to this family…
remember “I Can Do All Things Through
Christ Who Strengthens Me “-Philippians 4:13 may god bless your little boy Ronan & your family
Angela
/ December 20, 2011What a sad story. After reading the facts about childhood cancer, I’m definitely going to try to raise awareness!!
Holley
/ January 3, 2012Just want you to know you and Ronan are my inspiration for every “hard” day of my life. NOTHING compares to anything that Ronan did. Or still does through you. Xo
Gianelle
/ January 20, 2012I want to just say that I am so so sorry for the loss of your gorgeous baby boy. I have been reading your entries or letters to Ronan and cried each time because your words express the pain you feel… Its very crushing.. There are
really not words to express what i feel for you and your family. I wwill pray for you and your family, for God to continue to give you strength. This is why I want to go into med school.
I send you all my love. God bless you.
From NY
Gianelle
psychevida
/ January 20, 2012Oh, Maya-
So much strength and gentleness to you today and each day.
Brianna Clow
/ March 8, 2012What a beautiful little boy. God has a plan for everything. He is free now, somewhere endless and magical in the arms of his maker. Life is a beautiful thing, and even in death, it’s beauty remains.
Jenn
/ May 9, 2012We wish strength, peace and love to you and your family. Ronan and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers today and always. You have turned something so tragic into something so helpful for others. You are raising awareness to this horrendous disease. Bless you on your journey.
Warmest Regards,
Jenn & Vince Rossi