Deep breaths, Patience and Xanax

Fork em' Devils!

What a long day. We don’t know anything yet but should know the results by tomorrow afternoon/evening. Now Dr. Eshun will meet with a team of doctors to go over the results of all the scans combined, with a fine tooth comb. Waiting is the hardest part. Sleep is going to be extra difficult tonight. UGH. I hate these nights.

Today, we started out at the clinic just doing Ronan’s normal labs. He needed to get blood, but we did not have enough time to do it before we had his MIBG scan. We will go back tomorrow for a transfusion as his counts were a little low. We did have some time to kill in between the clinic and our scan time so we went to the car wash and ran home for about 15 minutes. We then headed back to PCH to get ready for Ro’s scan. He was in a pleasant mood today and was excited as always to see Dr. Maze. We brought him a coffee and Ronan introduced Dr. Maze to his favorite show that he was watching on his iPad, Max and Ruby. Dr. Maze and our favorite of his helpers, Angela, were eating Ro up like always. We had some fun play time with them before it was time for Ronan to get his “sleepy medicine.” We did the usual, I held him, and Dr. Maze injected him. Ronan cried out his usual, “Mama, Mama, Mama!” I put on my brave face and gave Dr. Maze the look he knows so well now, which is, take the best care of my baby ever. I don’t even have to say the words anymore. He knows and he does. So thankful.

I walked myself out to the waiting room where Auntie Karen and Fernanda sat waiting for me. I am so glad they were there to keep me company today. They kept my mind occupied and I am so happy the two of them finally were able to meet. I am so used to going to PCH alone and by myself and I never realized how much work it is for me. Today, after Ro came out of anesthesia, Fernanda went and got my car for me so I didn’t have to walk all the way to the parking garage while carrying my bags and Ronan as I usually do. Today was easy and I am going to try to make myself take the help from my friends more often. It makes all the difference in the world. They kept my mind busy and my spirits happy. Thank you both for today…. I know I tell you all the time, but I love you so much. Ronan woke up a little grumpy and just wanted to get out of there asap. That is precisely what we did.

We came home to Mimi and Papa helping Liam and Quinn with their homework. Ronan was starving so I made him his favorite scrambled eggs and he scarfed them down. Woody came home soon after and we snuck out just the two of us for dinner. It’s been so long since just the two of us have gone out alone. It was nice to just sit with my husband and try to be as normal as possible. I caught myself laughing easily at his funny stories and we got caught up on our plans for the weekend. It was a very nice, much needed night together. My mom comes into town tomorrow until Monday and I am so very excited to see her. It should be a busy, fun, weekend <3

Fernanda sent me a text tonight that melted my heart. She said one of her little boys’, Brando, who is four, was at school today and a little boy asked him where his mommy was. Brando told the little boy that his mommy was at the hospital helping a little boy grow back his hair. That is one of the cutest things I have ever heard and filled my heart with so much joy. Fernanda is doing so much more than that; she is teaching me what it truly means in life to be an amazing person to the core. What it means to live a life full of passion, laughter, and love with just the right about sass to go with it. Fernanda is the kind of women who can light up a room with her quick wit and bright eyes. I told you she has the same sparkle in her eyes as Ronan and I find so much comfort in that. Even though what we are going through, sucks balls, I am so thankful for the beautiful souls that I am surround by. If not for this, I would be missing out on all the loveliness that has surroundedĀ me for so long, but I just didn’t know how beautiful it truly was until now. Everyday is a combination of heaven and hell…. it’s a beautiful, tragic love story to the fullest.

Deep breaths tonight. Hot Yoga at 5:30 a.m. Yes, please. I will be there and I will be focusing all of my energy into my Ronan baby like I always do. We need some good news tomorrow. Please.

G’nite and sweetest dreams to you all. Love you for checking in on us and loving our little Ro so much.

xoxo

MIBG Day is here!

I wrote the longest post last night, only to have it magically disappear. I am so annoyed and was too tired to write anything over again. I’ll keep it short and sweet this morning as we have a busy day ahead of us. Today is the day of the MIBG scan. The scan where we will be able to pinpoint exactly where Ronan’s cancer is still active. The scan that will light up his little body down to every active cancer cell. We are praying for a miracle and hoping the scan comes back showing a lot less activity. I know it is too much to ask for it to all be gone, but I’m asking anyway. Please keep Ronan in your thoughts and prayers today. I will update you all as soon as we know something. It may be awhile, as the team of doctors want to go over all of the scans combined. I am still going to get the MIBG read for me today. Dr. Eshun is pretty good about getting back to us as soon as he knows anything. So, here we go today…. at least it isĀ Ro’s last anesthesia for a while.

Yesterday the event at Los Palomas turned out beautifully. It was sold out and the room was filled with the most gorgeous women in the valley:) I had Tricia represent me, as I couldn’t be there due to being at PCH all day. She got up in front of everyone and read a little something I had written. I am so proud and honored that she was the one standing up there for me. Thank you, TT. You are the most amazing best friend to me. Thank you to Jaye and her wonderful board members for dedicating your entire day to raise awareness for Ronan. It means so much to our family.

After we returned home from the hospital, we had a great day playing outside and around the house. Ronan is feeling so great and it is days like yesterday that keep me going. Yesterday, I watched my baby play and act just like a normal 3-year-old who doesn’t have cancer. He was acting like his old self and was so happy and sweet. Days like yesterday don’t happen very often anymore but when they do, they mean so much to me.

I’ve got to get my little guy ready for the day. Thank you all for the love and prayers. I hope you all have a beautiful day!!

P.S. New York Miss Macy!!! I will be thinking of you during your travels today for your big move to San Fran! You will always be New York Miss Macy to me though. I can’t wait for your visit and I can’t wait to wear our Spirit Hoods together you crazy girl!!! I love you!!!