A breath of fresh air


I spent today enjoying everything to the fullest. Woody and I made a big breakfast together for the boys, Mimi and Papa; who came over to take Liam and Quinn to get their flu shots. I ran some errands alone which was nice. I then met Woody over at The Village to watch Liam and Quinn’s basketball game which was the highlight of my week. Danielle, her amazing boyfriend, Dave, and Trish came to watch as well. It was such a great game and I found myself laughing and cheering the entire time. The twins played awesome… it was like a switch flipped and all of a sudden they get it. They were hustling up and down the court, throwing great passes, guarding their guys, they each made a basket and played with the most heart that I have ever seen them play with. I was grinning ear to ear watching them and seeing how much fun they were having. The most beautiful sight that I have seen in a long time. I loved sitting with my sweet friends too and hearing them laugh and cheer right a long with me. Liam and Quinn were so excited to have an audience<3 I wish I would have recorded it all but it will forever be engrained in my brain. There is nothing like watching your kids flourish at something they love. My heart is sooooo happy today. I feel like a whole new person…. well, maybe more like the older version of myself; ┬ásomeone that I love and miss so very much.

After the basketball game, Trish and I went to Chestnut Lane for some lunch and girl talk. There is nothing like time with my bestie. It was nice to catch her up on some things that have been going on and to get to talk about our Marisa who just had her sweet baby boy, Max. I am so excited to see her and meet the newest little member of our inner circle. I am going to try to go to the hospital tomorrow to check in on them and to give Marisa the big hug that I have been saving for her. I’ve been missing her so much. Trish and I ran a couple of errands over at the mall and then we parted ways. It felt good to be out today, with her by my side. I even managed not to be bothered by being out in public. I am feeling stronger than I have in a very long time. I’m chalking it up to a very big weight being lifted off of my shoulders and the fact that Woody and I have really been enjoying each other lately. I have been missing spending time with him, doing all the little things that we used to do. Even just cooking breakfast together this morning was so therapeutic.

Tonight Mimi, Woody, and I all made a big turkey dinner together at our house. The boys played board games with Papa while we got everything ready. Ronan was pretty tired but ran around the entire night. He didn’t nap today so he finally fell asleep around 8. His energy amazes me. He had a few tantrums today…. I hate seeing him so angry. I know that anger is usually a secondary emotion so I am wondering what the first one is that he is feeling…. could be fear, or even pain. I hope he is not hurting physically and that is what is causing him to be so mad. I ask him all the time if he is hurting and he always tells me no. He has such a high tolerance for pain though so I can’t always trust what he says. I just pray that his little body is not hurting… that would break my heart. He is going through enough with everything and if he is feeling any of this, well, I don’t even have words to express how that would make me feel. All I can do is pray, watch him, and take the best care of him that I possibly can.

I am going to curl up with Woody and watch Saturday Night Live in a bit. Auntie Karen’s close friends daughter, Emma Stone, is hosting tonight. (GO EMMA!!!)You all should watch if you stay up that late. She is such a talented little thing and I love watching her in movies. She was amazing in “Zombieland.” One of my favorites:)

I hope you all have a beautiful weekend full of love and thankfulness. It is easy to get caught up in things that are not worth our time or energy, but it is even easier to just let some things go and live a life full of being true to ourselves. I know days like today are not going to come along very often for me for a while. I am going to have more bad days than good; which is a huge reason why I will forever cherish and remember today. The feeling of complete happiness is so easily taken for granted, but so easy to achieve when you know what really matters most in life.

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6 Comments

  1. Jennifer

     /  October 23, 2010

    ….exhale…. So great to hear you exhale! This blog is beautiful! I am so happy for you, you needed this day! xo

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  2. We met about a week ago. Not really sure of the date, to be honest because the days all bleed into each other. It was at PCH and I was with my daughter, Mia, waiting for her 2nd brain surgery. I recognized Ronan’s beautiful eyes when you walked by.

    I just wanted to say that I read your blog because in some bizarre way, it brings me comfort that my family isn’t alone. I can’t believe that my life took this path. Brain cancer parent. You help me be a better one and I just thought you should know that.

    Sincerely,
    Mia’s Dad

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  3. Thompson Family-

    I am so sorry to hear about your son. I know exactly what you are going through because our son is also battling a brain tumor (pineoblastoma). Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  4. Tricia

     /  October 24, 2010

    My dear sweet bestie, hearing you have these feelings of happiness is like music to my ears. Your happiness is my happiness :) I loved spending the afternoon with you! xoxo Tricia

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  5. Olivia

     /  October 24, 2010

    Amen sista! It’s amazing what can happen when let the negativity go. <3

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  6. Willits family

     /  October 24, 2010

    Yeah for cooking, shopping, watching kids play sports, snuggling with your husband watching TV and most importantly kids running around being kids tantrums and all. Thank God for the perfect weather too. Woo hoo for the weekends……

    Xoxo

    The Willits Family

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